In the staffing and recruitment business, I am often asked the following questions: 'What IS the new standard in professional dress?'? 'What do I wear to an interview to be taken seriously?'? 'What, exactly, IS Friday casual attire?'? 'If I am limited on what I can spend on new clothes, how can I look MODERN and PROFESSIONAL?'? All good questions and all in need of some serious answers.
The 'NEW'? Standard in Professional Dress: Fortunately, or unfortunately, truly professional dress standards have not changed much for men or women over the past 50 years...'?The Suit'? still reigns supreme. Now, it's true, 'The Suit'? doesn't always look like it used to; we have updated versions for both men and women. The styles may change considerably over the years, but you won't ever go wrong with a well made, dark, two to three button, light-weight wool 2-piece suit. With any suit, FIT is key and if it doesn't fit well, see a tailor. Cheap suits tend to fit poorly, and a well made suit in a quality fabric will 'fit like a glove.'
JACKETS AND BLAZERS – FIT TIPS FOR MEN AND WOMEN: When shopping for a jacket, items to consider with respect to fit include:
MEN: Opt for a flat front trouser without a cuff at the hem. Cuffs and pleats come in and go out of style, and when they are 'out'? your suit is instantly dated. (Not to mention, pleats can visually add weight, ever heard the term 'pulling pleats'? not pretty, huh?) Keep lapels to a moderate width and steer clear of any trendy 'slim cut'? or 'double breasted'? varieties for your go-to staple suit. For suit colors, Charcoal, Navy, Black or a very faint pin stripe are classics that are as versatile as your favorite blue jeans.... As you continue to build up you wardrobe, having fun with one or two '˜trendy' suits, (say a bolder pattern or non-traditional cut) can add some personality to your wardrobe, and the blazer from these more '˜trendy' pieces are great with a collared shirt and dark denim for Fridays at the office, or even a night on the town.
LADIES: While 2 piece suits are good, 3 or 4 piece suits add so much versatility; you can mix and match the individual pieces with blouses, sweaters and accessories and create limitless looks. 2 piece suits are available with pants OR a skirt. A 3 piece suit consists of a blazer, pants AND a skirt, and a 4 piece suit adds a simple sheath dress to the mix. I always advise women to opt for light-weight wool (season-less) with 2-4% Lycra. The fit is better AND more forgiving... you will thank me later. Also, do not pay attention to the size on the tag, fit is more important that squeezing into your 'regular size'?...if it bothers you that much, you can always cut it out.
When opting for a 2 piece pant suit, look for a flat front suit pant without front pockets. Front pockets add bulk, and if you gain a pound or two, they will be pushed up under the front of your pant and the seam will create a horizontal line across your mid thigh...not exactly the best way to camouflage last nights second helping at dinner. If you are in love with a suit that has front pockets, you can always have them sewn shut, a simple alteration that shouldn't cost more than $10-20 at the tailor (or dry cleaner). Back pockets are fine, but if you find that they 'ride up'? during the day, you may want to have them sewn shut as well. This will help smooth the silhouette.
Skirt Suits are a wardrobe classic that every woman should own...follow the above rules for your jacket fit. Skirts can be either straight, A-line, pencil or a 'flippy skirt'?. Straight skirts are the most classic and timeless, though not always the most flattering. A straight skirt is great for women with a few extra pounds, as they do not cling at the hip and accentuate the widest area of the body. A-line skirts are a nice choice for relatively thin, muscular types; This skirt with fit through the hip and then move outward away from the body, a great choice to balance a top heavy silhouette. Pencil skirts can do wonders for one's figure....that is, the slim/curvy figure. Pencil skirts should not be too tight, or you will struggle entering and exiting vehicles, not to mention sitting at your desk. A classic pencil skirt should hit just below the knee, for the most flattering effect. A 'flippy skirt'? has a similar silhouette at the pencil skirt, except at the hem there is a slight widening of the skirt opening, or a separate piece of fabric sewn on the bias creating movement, these skirts typically stop at the knee.
INTERVIEWS: For that first, or second, interview, you can never go wrong with a suit, especially in the real estate industry. Wearing a suit to your interview declares that you cared enough to look polished and professional and that you want to be taken seriously as a professional. Gentlemen, polish your shoes and skip the light or brightly patterned socks. Ladies, if you wear a skirt with stockings or tights, ensure they are free of runs and snags. You are better off bare legged (in an appropriate length skirt) than you are with a hole, run or snag in your nylons. Ladies, make sure your shoes are clean and polished and your handbag is in good condition and free of clutter. Don't forget to bring a pen with you and a notepad for taking notes when you ask questions. Keep accessories, such as jewelry, conservative and to a minimum. If you are wearing all neutrals, don't be afraid to add a small 'pop'? of color to stand out, via a blouse or colorful tie. And don't leave home without your most important asset, your winning smile!
FRIDAY '˜CASUAL': All too often I see Friday casual taken much too far in the office environment. If jeans are allowed on a Friday, make sure they are free from stains, rips and holes and they are not overly faded or '˜worn out'. On top, gentlemen should still be opting for either a polo, tucked in with a belt, or a button down shirt, sans tie. Blazers or cardigans are also office appropriate. Ladies, top off those jeans with a colorful blouse, sweater set or top and blazer. Heels or nice boots pull the look together. Friday casual DON'Ts: Flip flops, gym shoes, shorts, tank tops, and spaghetti straps are NEVER office appropriate. Skirts that are too short should be retired or saved for after hours, and hair and make-up should be as polished as it is on a Monday morning. Don't end up the subject of office gossip by being the one person who doesn't understand Friday Casual etiquette.
Look for our next post about how you can build your professional attire on a budget!